Most hosts ask you to take the platform on trust. This is ours, drawn out: every stage a message passes through between the sender and your inbox. The design is the result of many years of building ISP mail platforms that stay up and stay clean.
Click the diagram for the full-size schematic. It is constantly evolving — this is the current shape of the platform.
Click for the full schematic as a PDF (159 KB). Phones load a smaller image automatically.
A diagram is no use to a screen reader, and no use on a phone. So here is the same journey written out.
Outbound mail takes the reverse path: your client authenticates to the SMTP cluster, which relays on your behalf. Settings for that are on the email settings page.
Both are PDFs. The wholesale overview is the one to send to a prospective reseller's technical people.
If you are evaluating us and want to talk to someone who actually built this rather than someone reading a datasheet, that is who answers the phone.